SUCCESS CHANGES EVERYTHING

See the way crowd behaves with you after huge victory/success. I got to remember a discussion with my collegues how success changes the perceptions of humans. There are brilliant girls out there. They are doing wonderful things for the society and their personal growth as well. The world always seems to call their names " bad girls". So called marriageable bachelors feel offended to marry these girls who are ambitious. Ambitious girls are rebellion for the world.


. There was a girl in village. She used to live her life the way she wanted. By the age of 14 years she enjoyed equal opportunities like her brothers at home. Village felt jealous about her life style. They call the bad names to family saying " ye ladki kisi ki ni sunegi. Haath se nikal jayegi itna sar pe bitha kar rkha to". Village used to humilate the family every day by their narrow minded talks. Out of frustration the family left the village and settled down in a city. The girl was brilliant in study and managed to get good position in life. After certain time she achieved a higher post and returned her village for some worship. Entire village organized a function saying " we will honour the girl as she is our girl. She made us proud to be the first officer from the village". Village organized a huge function and made garland for the girl. Afterwards she was "Sab ki Beti".


It is not just about girls only. It is about success. Success always changes the perspective of society.

Take another example. There was a girl who married the guy of her choice. The family was very happy with the fact their daughter opted for the diamond. Diamond (Groom) was "A" Class officer in Government sector. Earlier family believed in caste system but when they found the Diamond ( "A" Class Officer groom) family became liberal and proud how their daughter recognized Heera in Pathars.